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How to Have a Meeting

How to Have a Meeting

Dear Leaders,

A meeting starts well before it actually starts.

Do the following to cut waste, save time, and boost productivity.

People will want to attend.

Your meetings will be focused and action-packed, with everyone contributing. Before you know it, they’ll be asking you for more meetings. The answer, of course, is no.

1. Always send meeting materials in advance. Give them a chance to prepare.

2. If the meeting has no agenda, decline it.

3. Start with silence (5–15 minutes). If in person, hand out the agenda. If remote, share it on screen. Let everyone read it quietly. Now everyone’s actually read it and can contribute.

4. Only the relevant people: those who add value or make decisions. No spectators. No fillers.

5. Set a hard time limit. Never let it drag. End early when you can. Ending late kills attention – and momentum. You don’t need the reputation.

6. Focus on action, not more meetings. Don’t “let’s circle back” or “let’s think on it”; decide on it. Forward progress.

7. Assign an owner for each action. Use the What, Who, When rule:

– Clearly define what needs to done.

– Who is responsible: one person with ultimate ownership, not a team.

– When it’s due: date and time.

Some of my clients have “What, Who, When” framed on the walls of their meeting rooms. That’s how effective it is.

8. Senior voices speak last. The more senior you are, the later you speak. Draw out other people’s thinking first.

9. Engage the quiet ones. If it’s your meeting, it’s your job to involve them. Silence doesn’t mean no ideas; it usually means hesitation.

10. Stick to the agenda. No tangents. No “while we’re here…” The agenda remains sacred.

11. Limit devices unless necessary.

– In person: no phones or laptops,unless you’re presenting or taking notes.

– Remote: shut down distractions. If you’re in the meeting, be in the meeting.

12. End with a 2-minute recap. Say it out loud. Decisions, actions, owners. No assumptions. No misalignments.

13. Cut recurring meetings. Audit them. You’ll find that half are useless. Eliminate those, everyone will thank you for it.

14. Say it straight, no jargon. Talk so that everyone understands. Radical clarity.

15. Silence = agreement. If you disagree, say it in the room. Don’t go lobbying afterward. That’s how silos form, and you’re the one feeding them.

16. Skip it if an email or a call will do.

Onward – with fewer, better meetings,

Hamza

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I advise CEOs and senior investment professionals on difficult decisions, executive development, and organizational performance.

My clients lead public, private, PE-backed and family-owned companies, or hold senior roles at investment banks, asset managers and private equity firms.

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